May 4, 2012 § 2 Comments
After the conversation with our property manager, we realized that testing was not going to take place. We wanted to know how much of the air was filled with moldy microorganisms, and how much, so we took matters into our own hands.
Trever found a mold investigation company that tests four different areas around the home as well as the inside and outside air on Google. He gave them a ring and set an appointment for the following day–Thursday, April 19–at 9:00am.
The aptly named Justice, the mold investigator, arrived at nine on the dot. He began unloading his tool kit and setting up shop while I gathered my things to take the kiddos to music class with Angie from World Citizen Baby.
While we were at the park after music class, Trever texted me to not come home. Ever. Justice had requested to move the bed away from the wall and discovered mold a foot thick across the entire back of our bed, saturated into the bone white paint. Black, thick, disgusting mold. The photo he texted me of it (posted in part I) was so horrifying I shook with anger and tears.
I made a few phone calls and found us a place to stay. I spent the day at Gina’s and the night at Megan’s. Through the weekend, my friends were extremely supportive. Megan helped me watch Audrey and find a new place to live, which we applied to and became accepted for on Monday, April 23.
It would be another week until we found out the mold results. Our gut instinct and Justice’s expertise were confirmed. The air inside our apartment was 10% extremely toxic, causing microorganisms to float around and land on all of belongings. Black mold including penicillium, stachybotrys, and aspergillus were everywhere causing numerous symptoms* to occur in our bodies over the past fifteen weeks. Any mold is bad mold, yet these are known to be the worst of them all.
We we’re so thankful we got out when we did. Little by little over the past two weeks we have purchased things to take care of our needs. Trever has taken two very large loads to the city dump, filling his truck with our contaminated belongings including our bed and mattress, pillows, nightstands, couch, orange chair, toys, clothing, storage boxes, and different odds and ends amounting in thousands of dollars in losses and with visible and/or smelly mold in-tact.
It’ll be awhile until we put our lives back together. We have spent our tax refund on making our lives seem even just a little normal. A couch would be nice. We don’t know what will happen or if we’ll get our deposit back. On Tuesday, May 1 our property manager called to tell us it was our fault because of our humidifier–after finding it during a mold testing although I explicitly told them not to enter on Friday, April 27. And even though the city of Pasadena’s health department has documented that it is from poor ventilation. I’m sure our property manager enjoyed receiving that email of the complaint.
Sadly, we know they will do everything they can to not have to pay. After Tuesday’s conversation, they may even go so far as to attempt to charge us for the mold remediation, “none of this would have happened if you would have listened to me and just cleaned it off with bleach. Now you’re costing us thousands of dollars.” Yes, she said this on Tuesday even contradicting our first conversation two wednesdays prior to, claiming that that unit has always had mold issues.
It’s stressful. But we’ll figure it out. We always do.
If you or someone you love is dealing with environmental-related sickness issues, please take proper care and contact your doctor. If you have mold in your home that you are renting (home owners have rights too), here are some steps you should follow:
• Treat all mold as if it is toxic…because it is
• Take photos of all mold issues and video
• Document days and times by stating them on video
• Record conversations over the phone–tell them you are–or write down what they have stated and email it to yourself
• Place evidence in a well-sealed bag
• Visit a doctor who can identify if you have mold allergies and request mold allergy and fungal blood testing
• Submit an insurance claim with your Renter’s Insurance (even if they can’t cover it, you’ve got documentation)
• Find a toxic mold lawyer who will either represent you or advise you in your small claims case
• Contact the Renter’s Rights in your area
• Contact the Health Department in your area, submit a complaint, and have an investigator view the property and take photos before you return the keys
In the end, do not clean mold yourself, regardless of how much they push you. Contact an expert and have it tested. Seal off the area with 3 millimeter plastic. Do not touch it. Feel free to contact me of you have any questions at Jenny L’voe at gmail dot com.
*Here are our symptoms from living in 635 N Michigan Ave Pasadena CA 91106 from December 31, 2011-April 19, 2012.
Trever: Scratchy throat, chest pain, respiratory issues, sneezing, watery and itchy eyes (especially at night), occasionally headaches (more frequent at home in the last few weeks), swollen glands in neck, sinus pain, achy joints
Jennifer: Constant headaches (wrote it off as dehydration even after drinking enough water), scratchy throat, swollen glands in neck, itchy nose, itchy and dry eyes, chest pain, fatigue near exhaustion, itching skin, diarrhea, nausea, pain in joints and muscles, inability to focus/foggy brain, sinus pain, stronger body odor
Audrey: Runny nose, cough, fatigue, rash around bum and legs, nausea, vomiting, loss of appetite (and therefore lack of weight gain)
Edric: Cold-like symptoms since birth, runny nose, cough, respiratory symptoms (flemmy sound in chest), blocked tear duct (gunky yellow eye cured by antibiotics)
You are on part three.
Read part one.
Read part two.
July 15, 2011 § Leave a Comment
When Audrey came out and Trever placed her on my tummy, I had an overwhelming feeling of love for my child. And protection. I actually had the thought,
“If anyone tries to do anything to my baby to harm her, I will kill them!”
Woo. Kind of freaky, Mother Bear. Yes, I know. But many mother’s out there can hear me on this one: you’d do anything to protect your young and I believe it’s a natural instinct. In that moment, I felt very primal. And that feeling hasn’t gone away.
Since Audrey has arrived, I have constantly felt an automatic need to take care of her whatever the cost. Not doing so just isn’t an option. I think about feeding her, clothing her, and sheltering her way before I get to myself.
In the beginning, I had such a hard time balancing her needs with the simple one’s of my own that I would often not shower or brush my teeth for days. Learning how to be a new mother and wanting so badly to stay completely attached to your little being can be all time consuming.
As Audrey grew, I figured out how to take a five minute shower when Papa got home or make myself eat even though I didn’t feel like it or brush my teeth before I laid her down to bed for the night and stayed with her so she doesn’t wake up and feel abandoned.
Now I can shower with her or involve her in the food-making process and even snuggle her to sleep and watch a movie or read a book in the other room. The first year being completely attached was just hard and oh so worth it. I believe she’s even more independent because of it.
I’m looking forward to having all her teeth come in (just the canine’s to go) and getting her used to using the potty. She’s already in love with her undies and going quite frequently on the pot. That will take more stress off as the coming new year arrives and we welcome the new addition into our family.
We’re so very excited to welcome another member. I can feel the motherly instinct coming on again. Welling up inside of me to protect my young kin. Watch out though, you don’t want Mother Bear on your bad side.
• I’m twelve weeks and counting.
• This was planned and very welcomed.
• We don’t know what the sex is nor do we plan on finding out.
• We’re having the baby at home again. We have two wonderful midwives that we trust.
• We are due January 28, 2012. Although the baby could come anytime between 38 and 42 weeks, give or take.
• We’ve explained it to Audrey and we think she’ll make an excellent big sister.
• We’re planning to have a baby arrival celebration as the due date nears.
• We’re all set with clothes thanks to our good friends (whether it’s a girl or a boy).
• We have no sex preference. Either would be wonderful.
• We are happy with our family of four. Two is enough for us.
• Oh and yes! The hard month of June, complaints of being “sick”, etc. have been all baby-making related. I have both 24/7 morning sickness and gastritis. So it’s been tough, but look! I’m still blogging!
On that note, we definitely still need help entertaining Audrey on most days. As my body is building a baby and causing me lots of issues. And we will for sure need your support when the little one arrives.
And yes, I will kill for this one too. Wink wink.